Top Sex Positions for Better Comfort, Connection & Intimacy

Sexual intimacy is an important part of a healthy relationship, helping couples build trust, comfort, and emotional bonding. Whether you're newly married or in a long-term relationship, trying new sex positions can make your experience more enjoyable, balanced, and emotionally fulfilling.

This article highlights safe, comfortable, and mutually satisfying sex positions that support better connection and respect individual comfort. Always prioritize open communication and consent in your relationship.

This article is for educational and wellness purposes. For any medical or relationship concerns, please consult a certified healthcare professional.

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1. Yab Yum position:

Try Yab Yum position to derive the utmost pleasure with your partner- this is a unique sexual position for couples that can help them to experience the most pleasure and true union. To try out this position, you need to have your partner sit and then face each other while sitting on top of your partner. Before you try out this position with your partner, make sure that both you and your partner are in flexible muscle positions and can sit facing each other in relaxed and easy postures to avoid any type of discomfort. Talk to your partner so that you can enjoy this position with ease and comfort.

2. 69 Position:

A classic that never goes out of style, the 69 position involves both partners performing oral sex on each other simultaneously. This oral sex position is known for its most pleasurable experience among couples. So, 69 can always be a highly recommended sex position for couples. It is important to remember that trying positions like 69 may require partners to be open, transparent, and vulnerable to each other, which, will help in strengthening their bonds. Women are known to enjoy this position the most because it is an incredible experience to have and give oral sex simultaneously.

A health concern about this position is breathing. While you and your partner are in a 69 position, try to have enough space between each other so that you both can breathe easily.

3. Pleasure Arch:

Partners who are easy and are already in love with the 69 positions should try out another new sex position, that is, the pleasure arch. As the name suggests, you are supposed to derive sexual pleasure in this position through an arch of the body, that is, when you sit on your partner’s face and then your body is arched in the back, and you take your partner in your mouth. But here is something that you need to remember, that is, when you are planning to try out the pleasure arch position with your partner, both you and your partner must be in a comfortable and flexible position, because this sexual position demands the most flexibility while performing.

4. Koala Position:

This is another cute yet comfortable position, especially when a male partner is carrying a female partner around. For allowing space for him to enter, make him take you by supporting your buttocks with your hands and place the male partner’s shoulders and your legs over his hips. This position is easy to try because it does not require any flexibility, extreme muscle movement, and so on, and it is easy to be in because this position is known to be quite comfortable for both men and women.

5. Cuddle Squat:

Haven’t seen your partner for a long time? Or are you looking for a more straight and face-to-face communication with your partner? Do try out the cuddle squat position the next time you plan to have sexual intercourse. What you need to do in this position is to make your partner sit down first and face you directly and now it is time for you to sit on top of his erection and bounce up and down. Do not think that this new type of sex position applies only for straight couples, same sex couples are also known to appreciate this cuddle squat position, because this position gives them a space for direct interaction which can help to increase pleasure and sexual intimacy amidst the partners.

6. Chair Position:

Do you want to have a little experiment outside bedroom? If yes, then the chair position might work out to be the best for you. In this position, couples who are into very deep penetrations because in this position, one partner will sit on the edge of a chair while the other partner should sit on top of them with your back to them. This new type of sex position can be done in many places, but here is a word of caution, especially regarding health hygiene: when you are sitting in very many places, make sure that the place is clean, or otherwise there may be chances of infections or contamination, which can be harmful for both the partners.

7. Butterfly Position:

A butterfly is a new romantic sex position for couples, in which one partner is supposed to keep the soles of their feet together while lying on their back and the knees are left open. The butterfly is in fact, the most suggested positions during foreplay and penetration because this is the position in which the couple can get truly relaxed. Moreover, this position does not demand any extra flexibility from the partners as well. If necessary, you can also use pillows under your knees, back, and pelvis for more support.

8. Lovers’ Lift:

A Lovers’ lift has also now become a new favorite type of sex position for many couples, because in this position a couple can truly get the most pleasure and have heightened intimacy with each other. In this position you need to lay on the bed with your back and let your spouse or partner approach and enter you on their knees. This in fact, can be quite a unique position for oral sex, or if a partner wishes to lift their legs and place them on the other partner’s shoulders. This position can also help in maximizing pleasure because in this position your partner gets the ultimate control, so your body can be lifted, and erogenous or sensitive zones of the body can be stimulated for the best experience of sexual intimacy.

9. Doggy Style:

The doggy style is another unique sex position that is often preferred by partners for its pleasurable access to the G-spot and better penetration. The doggy style is also pleasurable because when a partner remains on the receiving end, they get to stimulate their clitoris (especially for women) with their hand while the partner who is in the giving end can penetrate much better, thus helping in providing better pleasure.

10. Countertop Position:

Do you wish to arouse your partner through pleasure fantasies while having sexual intercourse? If yes, then the countertop is the best sex position for you. As the name suggests, start sexual intimacy with your partner on the countertop of the kitchen sink or in any space like an office or a bedroom table. This sex position also provides different ways for sexual stimulation, be it in the nipple areas or in the clitoris.

11. Scissors Position:

The Scissors sex position involves a posture just like the name suggests. This position is best performed on a flat surface. In this position, the partner who is on the receiving end is supposed to lie on a hip-height surface. On the other hand, the partner who is penetrating should stand before them, making it a perfect scissors-like position, allowing maximum space for sexual intimacy. This position is also preferred among couples because it allows them to get access to various types of erogenous zones in the body, particularly down the legs and feet.

12. Seated Scissors:

This is another type of scissor sex position that helps a partner to go through a lot of other types of activities while having sexual intercourse, which may include bounce, bump, and grind, which, in a way, can help increase sexual pleasure for the other partner. As this position involves a partner to be seated atop another, there is a space for an easy and relaxed penetration, which can create enhanced experiences of pleasure during sex.

Safety and Comfort Tips for All Couples

✅ Communicate openly about preferences

✅ Ensure mutual consent

✅ Use lubrication if needed

✅ Prioritize hygiene

✅ Stop immediately if any pain or discomfort occurs

When to See a Doctor?

You should consult a gynecologist , urologist, or sexologist if:

You experience pain during intercourse

There are concerns around arousal, desire, or function

You or your partner face emotional distress regarding intimacy

You’re planning pregnancy or managing STIs

You can find trusted sexual health specialists on DocIndia.org.

FAQs – Sex Positions & Relationship Wellness

Q1. What is the best position for beginners?

Missionary or spooning positions are recommended as they provide comfort and emotional bonding.

Q2. Can I experiment with new positions?

Yes, as long as it’s consensual and safe for both partners.

Q3. Are there any recommended positions during pregnancy?

Yes, spooning and woman-on-top are generally safer, especially in early pregnancy. Always consult your doctor.

Q4. How to avoid discomfort during sex?

Use pillows for support, maintain good hygiene, and communicate openly. Lubrication may help in some cases.

Final Thoughts: Build Intimacy, Not Just Variety

Trying different sex positions can bring physical pleasure, but it’s the emotional safety, consent, and communication that truly deepen your bond. Choose what feels right, respectful, and comfortable for both partners.

Healthy relationships are built on respect, not performance.